Thanks for the pointers KK, seasonable food is a great one and completely agree with the staff-customer relationship. The previous owners of our local Italian were awesome people, treated locals like family and everyone else like friends of the family, I honestly believe we ate there more because we liked going in and saying big hello's and taking the piss with them a little. BH and MC, by live music I mean a guy/girl or band playing acoustic on a Fri or Sat night for an hr or two over drinks and light food. I've been to loads of restaurants that have had live music of a night and it creates a happy vibe. As far as pissed people fighting and security etc, I dont think that's something to worry about. I go to packed pubs to watch gigs and haven't seen a fight since I was a kid. When there is no standing area for people to start getting rowdy with strangers that problem is reduced even more. I agree with the idea to work in a cafe for 1-2yrs as leader. My girlfriend could probably do that, bit hard with my current job and money being earnt/saved. Definitely should be done by at least one of though, agreed. The right location should be worth waiting out for, agreed. So easy to get excited and jump at the best lease price in the middle of nowhere. Heard a number of people talk about the crueling hrs/work involved which I believe and is understood. I dont believe there is much that comes for nothing. I've been working in construction since I was 15 and I've done physical labour until I've spewed, then dealt with stress of leadership for years later as a supervisor. I can be stubborn as hell when It comes to getting something done, which could be the end of me, but can also be a good thing. So ye, I'm not after the blueprints for success or anything like that, I just know that if you don't have experience then you talk to people with experience on the rd to gaining some of your own. Just from this discussion I have been given pointers that have given me ideas. Basically want feedback, not anyone's secret muffin recipe, haha. If there's any other advice anyone can give for this know nothing, It would be much appreciated! Cheers!