Welcome back... Yes as we get older and start to look at stability; life decides it is now going to work in reverse. Thus for me it is FIL / Mum / Wife and others who I see experiencing major life changes.... Hence I am looking for new work and a life change to allow more time to be spent with family, while there is time... PAT, I expect that your good nature and passions will not change, but the focus may be a little more intense. Take Care...